About us


Our Idea

We’ve all been in need of some help at sometime in our lives, whether we are young or old, rich or poor, male or female. Let me explain what we are about.

My original idea was to give useful advice about life the universe and everything to guys and girls who were struggling to cope with everyday chores after a breakup, hence the name back 2 bachelor (ette).

But I soon realized that ‘help’ is a complex word, it has many forms, and being able to help someone is both a gift to the person in question and to ourselves. I have relaised that in helping others, we are actually helping ourselves too.  So this help can be as simple as how to plan a weekly/monthly shopping list, or it can be more complex, such as how on earth do I cope from day to day when the love of my life has left me? 

So I hope that this is a place where we can share advice, ideas and positive thoughts for when they are needed.

Love to all…

Who are we?



44 years old, 44 years of life experience, I’ve fallen down into some deep valleys,  but even at the bottom, I’ve looked up and seen there’s light. I always climb up towards that light. We can all climb up with a little help…


53 years old and 53 years of life experience. We all have challenges in our lives, it’s how we deal with these challenges that makes us the person we are today. Most of us need help along the way, and that’s what I want to be able to do.

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